I'm very confused about what's going on here but here is android behavior v2.0(the latest is 2.1) and my setting file for it. For some reason, at least for me, I'm getting the exact behavior you want. This is one of my favorite things about my current set up and I distinctly remember spending a lot of time tweaking a value in the settings file for android behavior that controlled how wide her eyes stayed. But this value is non existent in any version of android behavior. Yet still removing the mod causes her to blink and updating it makes her eyes max wide. I hope what ever bug this is works for you too.