thanks for the reply Nicky, that was exactly the problem, now my problem is when I set my texture quality to high my graphics are loading insanely slow and my entire computer is completely bogged down and loads everything I do verrrry slowly in and out of BDO. When I first started playing I ran with both graphics/texture settings on high, I had some lag issues coming into town and whatnot nothing too crazy but annoying enough, so I went down to medium on both settings and have had 0 lag problems, now it's EXTREME on low graphics/high texture settings - could this be just from the armor mods?
EDIT: I even disconnect from the server trying to load in sometimes, which I never used to do either.
EDIT 2: Okay, it seems to have gotten worse, I can't even load into the game hardly every now, and when it do the lag is unreal the game is literally unplayable. I am running the game in optimization mode now with high textures. Most of the time when I get to character selection screen it takes forever to even load my characters to display, then when I click connect 9/10 times i just load for 5min then get d/ced from server back to main menu.
also wanted to drop my PC specs into the post, they aren't great but I don't feel like I should be laggin this much especially since I was able to run the game half decently on max settings before now it won't even run on lowest settings. I have an Nvidia GeForce GTX 660 Ti with an intel core i5-3570k cup 3.40GHz and 8GB of RAM