Now I see what you mean. I was thinking strictly about sharing with a partner. When you said 'loved ones' family didn't even cross my mind (which gives me something to think about).Ah, hmm, I thought it went without saying. I certainly didn't mean it was impossible to share with your mate, for example, but would you tell your parents or siblings about what gets you aroused?
I rarely tell such things to family members. I might mention it in a spontaneous conversation, but I don't see much point, apart from entertainment value maybe.
But I think sharing ryona with a girlfriend is very important. Of course it's not something you would share on a first date (LOL), but I think such things have to be discussed at some point if one wants to maintain a close relationship.